Let's play a game.

[Tears of Ash]

Ok.

it's a game, but it belongs here.

Basically...you ask a sex related question directed at the poster below you. The next poster answers and also asks a new question. It can be raunchy, or whatever. But it doesn't have to be. It can be anything from "Have you sucked on a partner's toes?" to something weird like, "Have you been in a foursome?"

Try to keep it somewhat realistic and try not to ask the same question twice.

I'll start. Have you ever smacked someone's butt in public?

[Texas Lynn]

How public is public? In the hallway of my ex-boss' mansion at the Christmas Party I smacked my wife over disagreeing about leaving too early there but no one saw. It wasn't nice but I wasn't through getting the office gossip because too often I hole up in my room like now and don't get it on the scene. It was okay, just she was unhappy with the lavish spread and wanted to go home for leftover tuna salad. Of course the tables were reversed not long after. My ex-boss looks like a middle aged supermodel as does her twin sister and lover and is not a nice person. It was obvious they were getting ready for an orgy after the squeamish guests left and I was anxious to be one of them and get the hell out and she got interested in what was going on. I had to pull her by the thumb and middle finger.

So, did you ever have an opportunity to go to an orgy and did you stay for it or book it like we did?

[Tears of Ash]

I've never really had an opportunity to go to an orgy. Although I did know an individual who set them up on regular basis. We've had casual orgies where it was a bunch of couples kinda groping each other in non-sexual ways, I suppose. Kinda hard to explain.

Ok, next question.

Have you ever gone to be tested for STDs? Why or why not?

[Glass*Soul]

I've never really had an opportunity to go to an orgy. Although I did know an individual who set them up on regular basis. We've had casual orgies where it was a bunch of couples kinda groping each other in non-sexual ways, I suppose. Kinda hard to explain.

Ok, next question.

Have you ever gone to be tested for STDs? Why or why not?

Yep. Lot's of times. Whenever I have a yearly exam, if I've had sex since the last one, I get tested. Why? Because it would be stupid to assume I haven't caught one.

How many sex partners in one lifetime is too many?

[Danhalen]

Yep. Lot's of times. Whenever I have a yearly exam, if I've had sex since the last one, I get tested. Why? Because it would be stupid to assume I haven't caught one.

How many sex partners in one lifetime is too many?I suppose mileage varies by model.

Have you ever had sex you were ashamed to have had?

[praying]

How public is public? In the hallway of my ex-boss' mansion at the Christmas Party I smacked my wife over disagreeing about leaving too early there but no one saw. It wasn't nice but I wasn't through getting the office gossip because too often I hole up in my room like now and don't get it on the scene. It was okay, just she was unhappy with the lavish spread and wanted to go home for leftover tuna salad. Of course the tables were reversed not long after. My ex-boss looks like a middle aged supermodel as does her twin sister and lover and is not a nice person. It was obvious they were getting ready for an orgy after the squeamish guests left and I was anxious to be one of them and get the hell out and she got interested in what was going on. I had to pull her by the thumb and middle finger.

So, did you ever have an opportunity to go to an orgy and did you stay for it or book it like we did?


Alright I can't get past you smacked your wife, as in literally....uhh all bets would have been off after that if she were me and I would have told you to kiss my you know what.

sorry I know that is off topic but I was thrown.

[Texas Lynn]

Alright I can't get past you smacked your wife, as in literally....uhh all bets would have been off after that if she were me and I would have told you to kiss my you know what.

sorry I know that is off topic but I was thrown.

It was more...a shut up kind of thing. We like strum und drang at times. We don't have a violent relationship unless you count things thrown at webcams when she's in Iraq.

So you want a question? How much squeamish are you before anilictus?

[praying]

It was more...a shut up kind of thing. We like strum und drang at times. We don't have a violent relationship unless you count things thrown at webcams when she's in Iraq.

So you want a question? How much squeamish are you before anilictus?

Okay good, I was thrown for a loop there.


LOL I would have to know what it is first.

[cas07]

...Have you ever gone to be tested for STDs? Why or why not?when i was married to my first husband, he slept with any willing participant. i lived in terror for several years about the possiblity of aids. ater being married to my husbnd for a couple of years, i was able to trust him enough to tell him one of the sources of my panic attacks. he convinced me to get tested. fortunately, i tested negative and was able to put that terror to rest. since my husband and i are monogamous, i no longer worry about that, or any other stds.

[cas07]

Yep. Lot's of times. Whenever I have a yearly exam, if I've had sex since the last one, I get tested. Why? Because it would be stupid to assume I haven't caught one.

How many sex partners in one lifetime is too many?one more than you have been married to...

[cas07]

How public is public? In the hallway of my ex-boss' mansion at the Christmas Party I smacked my wife over disagreeing about leaving too early there but no one saw. It wasn't nice but I wasn't through getting the office gossip because too often I hole up in my room like now and don't get it on the scene. It was okay, just she was unhappy with the lavish spread and wanted to go home for leftover tuna salad. Of course the tables were reversed not long after. My ex-boss looks like a middle aged supermodel as does her twin sister and lover and is not a nice person. It was obvious they were getting ready for an orgy after the squeamish guests left and I was anxious to be one of them and get the hell out and she got interested in what was going on. I had to pull her by the thumb and middle finger.

So, did you ever have an opportunity to go to an orgy and did you stay for it or book it like we did?

Alright I can't get past you smacked your wife, as in literally....uhh all bets would have been off after that if she were me and I would have told you to kiss my you know what.

sorry I know that is off topic but I was thrown.i was thrown too. having been in a relationship where being smacked (or worse) was a regular occurrence, i was surprised by this response. i will never allow that to happen to me again, no matter what the circumstances. i am glad that i was not the only one thrown...

[Tears of Ash]

you're supposed to ask a question, once you've answered one. ^_^

[cas07]

you're supposed to ask a question, once you've answered one. ^_^sorry, i'll have to try to think of one:think:

[Texas Lynn]

Okay good, I was thrown for a loop there.

Sorry.

LOL I would have to know what it is first.

I spelled it wrong. Wikipedia says: Anal-oral contact, also referred to as anal-oral sex, rimming, or anilingus (from anus and lingua), is a form of oral sex involving contact between the anus or perineum of one person and the mouth of another.

They also mention in popular culture:

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart wrote a 1782 canon titled Leck mich im Arsch (Lick Me in the Ass).

Madonna is depicted having an anal-oral contact with a man in her erotic book Sex. Illustration
In the song, "Moist Vagina" by Nirvana, the lyrics contain references to oral-anal contact. A portion of the lyrics: "I've been sucking the walls of her anus, Anilingus!"

Among other sexual acts stated in the Starr Report, Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton "engaged in oral-anal contact as well".

[praying]

Sorry.



I spelled it wrong. Wikipedia says:

They also mention in popular culture:


Uhhh if the question was have I ever, no if it was would I ever, no. And ill that's disgusting and beyond that it is dirty and germy.

[Tears of Ash]

This reminds of that part in the movie Clerks II... Mouth to ass?!?! Ewww!

Ok... I'm kinda lost in the thread...so.. I'll ask a question:

Do you watch porn with your Sig-other?

[BigToe]

not yet.

ever been caught by someone that embarrassed you?

[Glass*Soul]

not yet.

ever been caught by someone that embarrassed you?


As opposed to being caught by someone who didn't embarrass me?? :shock: :lol:

[BigToe]

Yes.

[Tears of Ash]

Do you think pouring candle wax on your body is sexy?

[praying]

not yet.

ever been caught by someone that embarrassed you?



Meaning embarrassed you because you were caught or embarrassed you because you didn’t want to be caught by that person, or embarrassed you by making an issue of your being caught. :confused:

There are many scenarios under the caught and embarrassed front. ;)

My Mom walked in on my husband and I once, though I wouldn’t describe that as being caught because we were married and it was in our bedroom. She was quite flustered and scooted away rather quickly, we on the other hand just stopped for a moment and continued on. :D He had been away so it had been a while.


Uhhh if the question was have I ever, no if it was would I ever, no. And ill that's disgusting and beyond that it is dirty and germy.

And to clarify what I meant here, it’s disgusting because it is dirty and germy not because I think it something totally kinky and perverse.


Would you allow your partner to completely bind, gag, and blindfold (in other words you are at there complete mercy) you as a precursor to sex?


I have two questions. :)

How soon is too soon to engage in sexual relations with your partner, on the first date, six months into the relationship…?

[cas07]

...Would you allow your partner to completely bind, gag, and blindfold (in other words you are at there complete mercy) you as a precursor to sex?


I have two questions. :)

How soon is too soon to engage in sexual relations with your partner, on the first date, six months into the relationship…?
my response to your first question is a resounding no. after having that done to me against my will, as a precursor to violence, never in a million years would i willing allow my partner to do that.

my answer to your second question is a bit old-fashioned for this board...anytime before you are married to that person.

do you consider cybersex with someone other than your partner to be cheating?

[Tears of Ash]

I guess it depends on how promiscuous you are. :P

I guess I was always fooling myself. I was like, "lets take it slow" but my 19 yr old body was like "vroom vroom" and wanted to do it faster. Six months is a sound timeframe, IMO. Three months at the earliest.

Now my turn to ask a question: What's your take on intercourse during "that time of the month" ?

[praying]

my response to your first question is a resounding no. after having that done to me against my will, as a precursor to violence, never in a million years would i willing allow my partner to do that.

Do you think that shows a lack of trust or just something that you have not been able to overcome in terms disassociating it from something your pervious partner did?



my answer to your second question is a bit old-fashioned for this board...anytime before you are married to that person.

:) Nothing wrong with old fashioned.



do you consider cybersex with someone other than your partner to be cheatin
?

As someone who has committed said act and my husband found out, he certainly was hurt by it. It’s emotional cheating.


What's your take on intercourse during "that time of the month" ?

It’s messy :p, other than that I have no issues with it.

[cas07]

Do you think that shows a lack of trust or just something that you have not been able to overcome in terms disassociating it from something your pervious partner did? it actually happened when i was quite young, and has led me through a life of panic attacks, among other things. i am unable to cuddle when i sleep, barely can stand hugs, etc. how anyone could find pleasure in something like that is beyond me. i am not sure that it is a lack of trust, necessarily - i trust my hubby to know what my boundaries are, and he has always been very respectful of them. i do trust himn that he will not hit, smack or otherwise abuse me, as did my first husband. of course, he knows if he ever did hit me i would leave, so...




:) Nothing wrong with old fashioned. :) that is funny, because i don't strike most people as old fashioned (piercings and tattoos to start off with), but sex, manners and respect for elders are three areas i am very old-fashioned about. one of my 10-yr olds and i were watching tv the other day and a commercial came on about talking with your children about waiting until they were married to have sex. i asked him if he knew what sex was, and he said "no, but i know i can't have it until after i am married", so dad had "the talk" with him. the other 10-yr old is oblivious to all of that, so we are waiting a bit to chat with him.


As someone who has committed said act and my husband found out, he certainly was hurt by it. It’s emotional cheating. i agree that it is emotional cheating. i was very hurt to find out that my husband had been cybersexing...to me, it was little different than having an affair, i just didn't have to worry about catching an std as a result of it.

when/what do you tell your partner about previous partners?

[Moriah Conquering Wind]

it's a game, but it belongs here.

Basically...you ask a sex related question directed at the poster below you. The next poster answers and also asks a new question. It can be raunchy, or whatever. But it doesn't have to be. It can be anything from "Have you sucked on a partner's toes?" to something weird like, "Have you been in a foursome?"

Being in a foursome bes "weird"??? According to WHOM??? :shock:

you vanilla humans.... :razz:

when/what do you tell your partner about previous partners?
Anything they wish to know -- and nothing that they don't.

Have you ever had sexual pleasure so intense it crossed over the threshhold into pain and no way in earth, heaven or hell did you want it to stop even then?